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Note: This is part 4 of an occasional ongoing "how to" series on BDSM.

Part 1 of the series, How to Tie a Rope Harness Part I, is here.
Part 2 of the series, How to Tie a Frog Tie, is here.
Part 3 of the series, How to Tie a Shinju, is here.

As you might well imagine, none of these posts is even remotely work-safe.

One fun aspect of sensation play that can spice up your sex life is temperature play. Many people have experimented with using ice cubes on their lovers in bed, and I've met many women who really, really enjoy the sensation of cold. But there's more you cn do than just take an ice cube out of the freezer and stroke a bare nipple with it! Presented here is something to take that basic idea to the next level: instructions for making a customized dildo out of ice.

  How to make an ice dildo
If you and your lover like using ice, you can create your own sex toys made of ice just by using unlubricated condoms, water, and some ingenuity.

Start with the cardboard tube from a roll of paper towels. With a pair of scissors, cut the tube lengthwise. Roll the tube to the diameter you'd like the finished dildo to be, and wrap tape around it to hold it at that size. Take a condom and put it into the top of the cardboard tube, and then overlap the top half inch or so of the condom around the edge of the tube as shown:

Sex ideas: Make an ice dildo

You can use a lubricated or unlubricated condom. If you use a lubricated condom, avoid spermicidally lubricated ones, because the spermicidal lubricant can get funky when it freezes.

Carefully fill the condom to the top with water. Stand the tube upright in the freezer, and wait a few hours. You can probably find all kinds of things to do to entertain yourself while you're waiting; if not, you can always visit this fine Web site.

In a few hours, the water will freeze. Remove the tube from the freezer. Carefully lift the top edge of the condom from around the tube and tie it in a knot to keep the water from leaking out as the ice melts. Then cut the tape holding the tube closed and remove the ice dildo.

Sex ideas: Make an ice dildo

When you're finished, the ice dildo should look like the one shown below.

If you like, you can take extra steps to make a fancier dildo by doing things to the cardboard tube before you place the condom in it. For example, if you take thick cord and wrap it in a spiral on the inside of the tube, the finished ice dildo will have a spiral ridge in it. If you take a small sheet of bubble wrap cut to the same width as the inside circumference of the tube and slide it into the tube before you put the condom in it, the finished ice dildo will have a dimpled, textured surface.

Sex ideas: Make an ice dildo

Remember, always run the ice dildo under cool water before you use it. This removes any frost from its surface and starts the outer edge of the ice melting. You don't want to use ice internally untill it has started to melt and has a thin layer of water on its surface, or the ice may freeze to your skin.

Want your ice cubes or ice dildos to look better? If you boil water and then let it cool before freezing it, the ice will be transparent rather than cloudy.

Cloudiness in ice cubes is the result of dissolved air in the water, which is displaced and forms thousands of tiny bubbles when the water freezes. Boiling the water drives out the dissolved air, which produces ice that is transparent when it freezes.



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May. 16th, 2007 08:03 pm (UTC)
Very clever. I was using small Mexican Popsicles that come in a plastic tube. This is better.
May. 16th, 2007 08:26 pm (UTC)
nifty :) makes me almost happy to be not working ;)
May. 16th, 2007 08:30 pm (UTC)
Almost happy? What sort of post would it take to make you all the way happy?
(no subject) - hypnagogie - May. 16th, 2007 08:32 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - tacit - May. 16th, 2007 08:50 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - skitten - May. 16th, 2007 08:36 pm (UTC) - Expand
May. 16th, 2007 08:32 pm (UTC)
Hey, I was just talking about that whole sex with satan thing via ice dildos the other day.

Synchronicity,and stuff.
May. 16th, 2007 08:46 pm (UTC)
Okay, so I'm the new kid on the block who's been tested as just about as plain-vanilla as one can get on the kink scale even after having had sex, so I may be a bit clueless about such things, but. . .

wouldn't something that cold do nasty things when it comes up against internal moisture? I know what can happen to your tongue when you lick a popsicle or ice cube, and can only shudder at the thought of that happening with vaginal secretions . . .
May. 16th, 2007 08:50 pm (UTC)
Nope. That's why you run it under cool water first.

It's a question of thermal energy. As long as the ice has started to melt, it's just at the freezing point of water. It can't cause water it comes into contact with to freeze without absorbing energy itself; and when it does that, it melts.

You can freeze your tongue to an ice cube or a Popsicle if it is significantly colder than the melting point of water. The Popsicle absorbs heat from your tongue, causing the moisture on your tongue to freeze, but it's so far below the freezing point of water that when the temperature of the Popsicle increases by the same amount as the temperature of your tongue drops, the temperature of the Popsicle doesn't get high enough for the Popsicle to start melting.

Warm the Popsicle to the point where its surface is just beginning to melt, though, and your tongue won't freeze to it.
May. 17th, 2007 02:02 am (UTC)
Neat. It's like an adult science project.
May. 17th, 2007 06:26 am (UTC)
A frozen water-filled condom is also a neat way to keep your lunchbox cool. =P

I assume you don't remove the condom before use?
May. 17th, 2007 06:57 am (UTC)
how about putting it on a cocksickle stick (so to speak) for easier handling?
May. 17th, 2007 04:49 pm (UTC)
love it.... cocksickle stick.
(no subject) - james_the_evil1 - May. 17th, 2007 05:35 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - peristaltor - May. 18th, 2007 05:04 am (UTC) - Expand
May. 17th, 2007 04:48 pm (UTC)
HEH. I have so done that before. LOL
May. 20th, 2007 12:14 am (UTC)
Cloudiness in ice cubes is the result of dissolved air in the water, which is displaced and forms thousands of tiny bubbles when the water freezes. Boiling the water drives out the dissolved air, which produces ice that is transparent when it freezes.

If only the MythBusters had know! Heh.

Spiff article. I'll have to try it sometime.
Jun. 3rd, 2007 07:59 pm (UTC)
Hmm...did MythBusters do an episode about cloudy ice?
(no subject) - meandering - Jun. 3rd, 2007 08:14 pm (UTC) - Expand
Jun. 8th, 2007 05:50 am (UTC)
I have fallen in love with your how-to series. Mind if I add you?
Jun. 8th, 2007 03:45 pm (UTC)
Not at all; welcome aboard!

These how-to posts are actually part of a large set of tutorials I'm working on for another Web site, www.symtoys.com. When I'm finished, SymToys will have a radically different look and feel, and a huge number of tutorials and how-tos like these.
Ice Dildo Flip - (Anonymous) - Jan. 13th, 2008 02:03 am (UTC) - Expand
Nov. 18th, 2009 01:40 am (UTC)
Will the ice stick to the skin like when you put your tongue on a cold piece of metal ?
Nov. 18th, 2009 01:49 am (UTC)
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Not if it has a film of water on it. A good way to keep this from happening is to run it under cold tap water before using it.
Sep. 6th, 2010 05:41 am (UTC)
Ice shots
The flexable Ice trays you get that make Ice shot cups are great too. Just run them under water like the Ice Dildo and insert them bottom down into your partner and push them home
Oct. 7th, 2012 05:04 pm (UTC)
Great Idea
Just put my first try at this in the freezer! Can't wait
Jul. 9th, 2013 06:49 am (UTC)
The boiled water we used is practically indestructible! My wife loves the fire/ice differential that this causes.
Dec. 16th, 2013 08:53 am (UTC)
I've experimented with this in the past. I found that you can add a little shape to your frozen dildo by adding a couple of rubber bands to it, as it freezes. Rubber band size is important but the approx. size of rubber band, can be found in your produce department. Wrapped around Broccoli stems.
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