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Turnabout is Fair Play

Since dayo and I are long-distance partners, a little creativity and imagination go a long way toward keeping our relationship going. She and I have a D/s relationship, and I take great (and rather fiendish) delight in giving her assignments to do from time to time. One of the things I particularly like doing, because I'm something of a bastard, is not letting her have an orgasm for extended periods of time, like days or even weeks. She's still required to do all manner of naughty things to herself, mind...she just cant come.

Now, I have more than one partner. And my partners have a habit of talking to each other. And sometimes, when they talk to each other, they plan. And plot.

And so it came to pass that rain_herself stepped into the role of dayo's Avenging Angel. dayo feels most comfortable in a submissive role in our relationship, but that doesn't stop her from delighting when rain_herself gives me a taste of her medicine, so to speak.

So for fifteen days, I've been on restriction, which (finally!) ended last week. Now, I have a very strong libido, and fifteen days without an orgasm is...well, it feels more like fifteen years.

It starts subtle, like a vague subliminal hum. You know how sometimes when there's an air conditioner or some kind of equipment running, even when it makes a lot of noise you're not consciously aware of it? And then when it stops, you're like "Wow, that was really noisy?" It's kind of like that--a constant, low-grade background horniness that's only noticeable when something takes my attention to it.

It doesn't stay that way, though. Oh, my, no.

After about four days, it's more like a constant, omnipresent itch. There's a sort of constant hunger, nagging but not intrusive...but at this point it's definitely noticeable, and there's still eleven more days to go.

At about five days, it's hard to think of anything except sex. At six or seven days, it's hard to think about anything but sex and it's also hard to sleep. Or, for that matter, concentrate on much of anything else for any stretch of time. It becomes much more satisfying to PvP in World of Warcraft, though; sex ad death are, it seems, two constants of the human condition. If you can't fuck, find someone to hit with a sword.

Now, I'm generally horniest in the morning and late at night. After a week without an orgasm, I'm much too much of a wreck to be horny in the morning, mostly due to the fact that it takes a long time to get to sleep, and when I do sleep it's usually shallowly. And, y'know, hornily. So that makes life worst during the evening, which is normally when I'm playing WoW.

Funny thing, that. I now strongly associate sexual arousal with playing WoW. More than two weeks of playing the game while perpetually horny has created what just might be a permanent association between the two; firing up the game gives me wood. I shit you not.

Midweek te second week, I was sorely tempted on a daily basis to break the rules and get myself off hard. In fact, it took reserves of self-control I had no idea I had not to; simple things like seeing one of my sweeties log in to AIM or Yahoo Instant Messenger would cause an instant hot flash of sexual arousal.

It's an interesting way to see the world, actually. Most of our experience of the world around us is filtered through our emotional state, and being perpetually aroused makes everything a little brighter and a little more colorful. Sex is one of the most basic of human drives, and there's no doubt it gives everything else--which, when you're that horny, means everything--a bit of a boost.

I damn near didn't make it fifteen days. On day fourteen I was craving sex like a caffeine addict with a Starbuck's gift card, and the only thing that stopped me was thinking about what I would do if I were in rain_herself's shoes and I broke the rules. She's at least as clever and creative as I am, maybe more so--and that thought by itself kept me on the path.

Day fifteen, I think I woke my neighbors. :)



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Feb. 13th, 2008 01:57 am (UTC)
Muahah. Muahahaha. Muahahahahahahah. That is all. *cackle*

Edited at 2008-02-13 01:58 am (UTC)
Feb. 13th, 2008 11:43 am (UTC)
I do believe I have to echo that, though without the strong personal element of revenge.
Feb. 13th, 2008 02:19 am (UTC)
Now I wish I had known that when I stripped for you on webcam - I might have made that more elaborate than the little peek I gave you at the time ;-)
Feb. 13th, 2008 02:10 pm (UTC)
Man, we could really make a team game out of this. ;)
(no subject) - joreth - Feb. 13th, 2008 04:16 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - ashbet - Feb. 13th, 2008 09:55 pm (UTC) - Expand
Feb. 13th, 2008 02:31 am (UTC)
Not just being horny, but being actively sexual makes the world a more interesting, intense place. It's like living in color and the rest of the world lives in black and white. Glad you made it the whole time without exploding.
Feb. 13th, 2008 02:33 am (UTC)

Feb. 13th, 2008 02:41 am (UTC)
And yet another reason why I just don't do that sort of thing - the denial bit. If I want an orgasm there isn't any one going to stop me. One of my sweeties mentioned doing that to me as punishment for some minor slight. I made it clear that it was not an option. No thanks, I like my orgasms just the way they are thanks.
Feb. 13th, 2008 02:21 pm (UTC)
I feel the same way, ironically. I don't seem to mind doing it to someone else, though.

I'm a bad person that way.
Feb. 13th, 2008 02:44 am (UTC)

Feb. 13th, 2008 03:15 am (UTC)
Being perpetually horny only makes you cranky & irritated.
Feb. 13th, 2008 04:02 am (UTC)
What helps me, in these situations, are things like chastity shorts. Yeah yeah, no good for long time wear but I find myself most likely to masturbate before going to sleep or when waking up. During the day at work, not so much of a problem. So locking myself each night up provides just enough of an obstruction that I keep on the wagon.

And, annoyingly, my pair of shorts "broke" (the lock bar snapped off; damn!)
Feb. 13th, 2008 05:02 am (UTC)
Can I just point out that, while effective as torture, male orgasm denial might have health consequences?

There are studies which show (although it's not conclusive there is strong evidence) that regular orgasms (preferably every other day, at least every 3) lower the risk of prostate cancer.
Feb. 13th, 2008 05:15 am (UTC)
Too bad one of your sweeties wasn't there to tempt you in person.

dayo's assignment from you is what the Boy likes to do to me from time to time. However, I have a hell of a time getting to orgasm anyway, so it's not that frustrating for me. Just makes me very horny.
Feb. 13th, 2008 05:42 am (UTC)
firing up the game gives me wood

Things tacit's guildies do not want to know for $300, Alex.
Feb. 13th, 2008 01:02 pm (UTC)
really? makes me wanna traipse my human warrior around in front of him sans armor. (yes a boring human warrior, was my first character created lol)
Feb. 13th, 2008 05:59 am (UTC)
If you can't fuck, find someone to hit with a sword.
Which explains why militarism and oppressive sexual morality tend to coincide...
Feb. 13th, 2008 07:35 pm (UTC)
hehe. are you familiar with Spiral Dynamics? go look up the "BLUE" vMEME (or D-Q
(no subject) - kawakiisakazuki - Feb. 13th, 2008 08:51 pm (UTC) - Expand
Feb. 13th, 2008 06:52 am (UTC)
I wonder how long it would take before you were no longer horny at all and had achieved some kind of spiritual enlightenment. Of course, day 15 probably *felt* like spiritual enlightenment. But...have you have ever gone without sex long enough to just lose interest in the whole enterprise?
Feb. 13th, 2008 01:04 pm (UTC)
um, 1 word for me....DIVORCE

I go 4-6 MONTHS at a time without sex, and yes I get to the point where the shower massager isn't even interesting any more.
(no subject) - rain_herself - Feb. 13th, 2008 02:23 pm (UTC) - Expand
Feb. 13th, 2008 08:20 am (UTC)
Just reading that made me hard.
Feb. 13th, 2008 11:34 am (UTC)
wow. thats some awful shit right there.
also on a side note you need a proofreader. not that your typos are bad, but now i cant help but see them;p
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